February 12, 2012
Listening – A Critical Skill to Advance in Your Career
In the last conversation you had with a business colleague – do you remember more of what you said or of what he/she said? Have you ever found yourself not listening to a family member but waiting for your turn to talk?
The number one complaint that people have of others in either business or personal relationships is “He/she does not listen to me.” Listening is the most important communication skill you can develop to improve how you manage others, sell to prospects, service your customers or interview for jobs.
Which of the following has happened to you because you didn’t listen well?
Good listeners know that these things happened because they didn’t listen well. However, many times people blame the other person or the situation instead of taking responsibility for their own listening.
So, how do you improve your listening skills? Here are three suggestions that are easy to follow:
Always let the other person know you are listening.
Tell yourself you are going to listen and clear your mind of other distractions.
Listen with Your Ears and Your Eyes
Effective listeners pay attention to both the words the other person is using and how the other person expresses the words. Pay attention to tone, volume, body movements ,facial expressions and filler words when you are listening. Here are some examples.
Each one of these statements includes the same words, but the meaning in all of them is very different. Listen with your eyes and ears to be the best listener you can be.
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